Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Experiencing A Loss

Canyon Hill Cemetary I lost my dad a couple of weeks ago.  As is often the case with these types of losses, it was a complete surprise.  I don't think anyone is totally prepared when they lose a family member or friend, but sometimes there's a few warning signs, such as an illness or a word from the doctor. In this case, my dad had just been to the doctor and he'd been told his health was good.  I think I am still in shock but can write a bit about it now.  The memorial services are over and now begins the time of sorting through the things that my dad thought were important to keep.

Our Lord understands what it was to lose someone dear.  It is recorded in John 11 that Jesus' close friend Lazarus had passed away.  Although Jesus knew that God the Father was going to raise Lazarus from the dead ..."This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God's glory so that God's Son may be glorified through it."  v. 4, he still was moved by how Lazarus' death was affecting Mary and Martha who he dearly loved, "Jesus wept". v.33-35

It is reassuringly  to know that Jesus understands our emotions and has a desire to comfort us when we are grieving.   He offers those who are grieving this blessing:

Blessed are those who mourn,
      for they will be comforted.
Matthew 5:4

We can be thankful for a Lord who is moved to love us and comfort us in a time of need.

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